(Hoathuytinh.com) Dung noi minh khong dong y voi mot quan diem nao do khi chua dua ra duoc ly do chinh dang. Dung noi khong dong y chi de chung to ban khon ngoan hon hay de thoa man cai ?toi? cua minh.

Neu ban khong biet cach the hien su bat tan thanh thi ban se chang bao gio co mot tam hon dep. Day la yeu to then chot. Nhung neu ban ap dung sai thi moi nguoi se chi thay o ban hien thi mot tam hon xau xi ma thoi!

Co nhieu nguyen nhan khien nguoi ta the hien su bat tan thanh cua minh:
- Co the vi ban than tho lo va hung ton.
- Co the chi de dau da va muon gianh phan thang.
- Co the chi de pho truong cai ?toi?.
- Co the de dan ap ke khac.
- Hay pho truong rang minh gioi hon ke khac.
- Hoac chi vi da duoc giao duc cach tranh luan phan bien nhu vay.
- Va cung co the chi vi khong biet cach nao khac hon de tim hieu ve mot van de.

Cho du cum tu ?khong dong y? chang ngot ngao cho lam, nhung no rat can thiet khi phai cong nhan su that va de kham pha cac van de that khach quan va thau dao. NHUNG HAY...nha nhan khi khong dong y

Khi khong dong y voi mot quan diem nao do, hay cu xu that le do va nha nhan, thay vi tho lo va khieu khich.

Co nhung phat ngon the hien su bat tan thanh that tho lo sau:
- Anh that ngu xuan.
- Do la chuyen kho khao nhat ma toi tung duoc nghe.
- Toi de nghi (nhu nhung cau menh lenh).
- Dieu do sai hoan toan.
- Cach lap luan nhu vay khong logic chut nao.
- Toi hoan toan khong dong y voi nhung gi anh vua trinh bay.
- Sao ma anh ngoc the?

Do la nhung cach the hien su bat tan thanh vung ve, tho lo. Thay vi the, ban co the chon cach dien dat khac di de cho biet minh khong dong y ma van khong xuc pham nguoi doi thoai, vi du:

- Toi khong dam chac minh hieu dung lap luan cua anh...
- Co the co mot cach khac de nhin nhan van de nay...
- Do khong phai la quan diem duy nhat ve van de nay.
- Con kha nang thu 2 nay thi sao?
- Toi nghi minh co doi chut nghi ngo ve ket luan cua anh
- Co the la nhu vay, ma cung khong han la nhu vay...
- Toi co the nghi den mot cach giai quyet khac...

Bay to su bat tan thanh mot cach nhe nhang, le do cung gay hieu qua khong kem, nhung dieu quan trong hon la cach the hien nay that dep.

? Mot vai nguyen nhan pho bien dan den viec khong dong y voi quan diem hay y kien nao do.
- Lap luan sai ve mat logic.
- Dien dich sai lech. (Ban can chi ra rang co nhieu kha nang dien dich khac nhau cho mot van de)
- Nhan thuc chon loc

Khi mot ba vo phat hien chong minh ngoai tinh, nguoi phu nu bi phan boi nay chi khang khang nho lai nhung chi tiet khong hay trong qua khu nhu de cung co nghi ngo la nguoi chong chua he yeu thuong minh that long.

Nhan thuc chon loc la cach nhin nhan su vat trong mot gioi han nhat dinh nham chung minh cho mot y tuong da co san.

Dinh kien va thanh kien la dang co dien nhat cua cac loai nhan thuc chon loc. Dau oc chung ta chi co nhung khuon mau nhat dinh va roi chung ta chi chu y den nhung gi nam vua gon trong khuong mau do. Dinh kien ve chung toc la mot vi du cu the.

- Cam xuc troi buoc (cam xuc thuong tiep noi nhung dinh kien, thanh kien. Cam xuc la nhung phan ung tinh cam cua con nguoi truoc mot su kien nao do. Va cam xuc quyet dinh cach chung ta nhin nhan nhung su kien).

- Nhung kinh nghiem song khac biet
- Kieu noi khai quat hoa...
- Uoc luong mu mo.

Hay than trong voi kieu khang dinh chac chan
Ban nen bo kieu noi khang dinh chac chan khi dua ra mot quan diem, va hay dung cach dien dat trung dung hon, chang han ?co kha nang la nhu vay?.
Neu ban lam duoc dieu nay thi ca ban va nguoi doi thoai deu co the tim hieu them ve quan diem dang bi bat dong do.

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